Every private matchmaking membership at Maclynn begins with an initial consultation: a relaxed, exploratory conversation between you and one of our membership team. It allows them to learn more about you, the service you’re seeking and how we might be best suited to support you.
Below, you’ll learn more about the thought behind our initial consultation process, what you can expect from yours and how both sides can get the very most out of this initial connection.
Why Do We Begin with a Consultation?
The complimentary initial consultation is an essential part of our membership process.
As a premium matchmaking agency, we are intentionally and respectfully selective about who we work with. In this way, we can be sure that every client we welcome onto our books is someone we can authentically support in their search for a partner.
We also believe that every prospective client should have the opportunity to meet us and understand exactly what we do, how we do it and the values that guide us before investing in a Private Membership.
In short, the initial consultation ensures this works both ways: it is an honest, open conversation about your goals and how you could be best placed to achieve them, be it with a matchmaking membership or through another recommended channel.
It also allows our team to build an initial picture of you and the relationship you are seeking, which will ultimately inform your profile should we decide to proceed together.

What to Expect from Your Initial Consultation
The aim of the initial consultation is to get to know one another and determine if Maclynn is the right fit for you. During the consultation, you’ll spend around an hour speaking with one of our membership team, either in-person or virtually, who will seek to understand a little more about who you are, what you’re looking for and whether our services are well suited.

“The initial consultation is a collaborative conversation designed to build a clear strategy for your matchmaking journey.”
— Tory Miller, Global Head of Membership at Maclynn
1: Understanding You
First and foremost, the goal of your initial consultation is to understand more about you. We will discuss the more practical aspects of your life, such as your career, lifestyle and interests, as well as building a picture of your core values, beliefs and ambitions.
2. Exploring What You’re Looking For, and Why
Secondly, the initial consultation is an opportunity to begin exploring the service you are seeking. For those interested in embarking on a private matchmaking membership, we will aim to understand more about the kind of relationship you’re hoping to build and your dating journey up to this point.
The conversation may cover topics such as:
- What does your ideal relationship look like?
- What are you looking for in a partner?
- What are your long-term relationship goals?
- What qualities matter most in a relationship?
- What values are important to you?
- Why have you decided to explore matchmaking now?
- What does your dating history look like?
3. Considering If Maclynn’s Matchmaking Services Are the Right Fit
Thirdly, your initial consultation is a chance to evaluate how we can best support you. The conversation allows our team to assess whether we have the right network and expertise to meet your needs, while also ensuring that our approach is in keeping with your expectations.
We’ll explain how our methodology works, answer any questions you may have and discuss whether our service aligns with your circumstances and goals.
Professional matchmaking isn’t the right solution for everyone, and we believe it’s important to be honest about that from the outset. If we feel another route would better support your journey, we will let you know and guide you towards an alternative solution wherever possible.

What Happens After Your Consultation?
Following your consultation, we’ll be open about whether we feel we can genuinely support your search, while giving you the space to decide whether Private Membership also feels right for you.
In some cases, we may feel we are not suited to support you. This could be for a number of different reasons; our network may not be able to meet your needs yet, we may feel that you are better suited to our Open Network, or that you would benefit from coaching before investing in a membership.
Where both sides feel there is genuine potential to work successfully together, your consultation will become the foundation of your continuing journey with Maclynn. We will discuss practical details, such as fees and membership duration, before introducing you to your dedicated matchmaker. Building on everything we have already learned about you, they will then guide you into the next step: your in-depth profiling session.
The First Step Towards a Meaningful Relationship
Your initial consultation is about beginning a conversation that helps you understand whether professional matchmaking is the right path for you, while giving us the opportunity to understand how we can best support your relationship goals.
If you’re considering a more personalised, discreet and psychology-led approach to finding a meaningful relationship, we’d be delighted to meet you and learn more.
Enquire with us today to take the first step on this journey.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is there anything I should prepare ahead of my consultation with Maclynn?
No, there is nothing you need to prepare in advance. We simply encourage prospective clients to come with an open mind and be ready to talk honestly about their relationship goals, values, lifestyle, what they’re looking for in a partner and their past relationship and dating experiences.
How long is my consultation likely to last?
Most initial consultations with Maclynn last for around an hour, and they can be delivered in-person or virtually to suit your preference.
Will you share feedback with me after my consultation?
Of course! After the consultation, we’ll tailor a membership outline to suit your individual needs. This may require further conversation with the wider matchmaking team too. If there’s a reason we don’t feel that we are the best fit to help you achieve your goal, we’ll guide you through alternatives.
What other services can you support me with?
For those who do not wish to pursue a private matchmaking membership at this time, there are a number of ways in which we can continue to support you.
Our Open Network allows you to have a passive profile with us and the opportunity to be matched with one of our private members. We also offer date coaching and relationship coaching services which may be better suited to your needs at this time.
Regular Maclynn events and workshops offer another opportunity to benefit from the insight and experience of our team, which you can learn about through our email newsletter.


















