How to remain close in a relationship

  1. Communicate  – be courteous and reassuring
  2. Stay physically close – hold hands, hug, making eye contact shows emotional openness
  3. Be patient – and rational and resolve conflicts after a few hours leaving both parties time to calm down
  4. Accept changes – try and adapt and work with new hobbies or interests and pursue them together
  5. Compliment your partner – kind and genuine words offered at the right time can increase your connection
  6. Ask questions – be present with your partner – no phones when they are trying to speak to you
  7. Take care of money – make sure financial issues are kept at bay as they lead to 1/3 of divorces
  8. Learn to apologize when in the wrong – don’t hold on to anger and accept we all make mistakes
  9. Be emotionally supportive – accept all their thoughts and feelings, do not dismiss or make fun of your partner, criticize or judge- offer advice, listen and help with problem solving
  10. Laugh together – it will boost your mood and boost your bonding