When I began working with this warm, charismatic gentleman in his early fifties, he was living in Singapore and navigating life after a recent separation. Philip had lived all over the world and owned homes across several continents. Working in a senior leadership role and a devoted father to two children who lived with him, he had no interest in casual dating. He knew himself well, and what he wanted was a meaningful, long-term relationship.
He described himself as playful, active and a bit of a cheeky chappy, someone who loved to laugh and needed a partner who could truly match his energy. His ideal partner would share a similar international background and global mindset, have the flexibility to spend time across his various homes, and bring a great sense of humour and adventure to life. Although he was based in Singapore, he was completely open to where she might live. For the right woman, he was ready to make it work.
I introduced him to a wonderful woman in her late thirties who was living in London. She was warm, grounded and flexible in her lifestyle, with a remote role that allowed her to travel freely. Her frequent travel mirrored the same global rhythm Philip lived by. This was only his second introduction, yet the moment I spoke to him about her, he lit up.
From their very first video call, the chemistry was instant. They spent several weeks connecting over video, deepening their conversations and building a warm, genuine rapport. Soon after, he flew to London to meet her in person, and their dates were everything they had hoped for. Since then, they have been nurturing an international relationship, and Philip often shares how much he values their bi-continental dynamic. Being in different cities means that when they do come together, they offer one another their full, undivided attention. It has brought a sense of excitement and intention to their connection that feels truly special.
Their relationship continues to flourish as they blend their international lifestyles with ease.
Meet the Matchmaker
Frankie Stenning
Frankie is known among her clients for her down-to-earth, empathetic and friendly demeanour. She achieved a First-Class Honours in Psychology and has conducted research into the impact of attachment styles on the longevity and health of romantic relationships. Frankie is a member of The BPS (The British Psychological Society).
Frankie joined Maclynn in January 2018 as Maclynn’s Open Membership Manager. She quickly established herself as an integral part of the team’s structure. Frankie is now a full-time senior Matchmaker in Maclynn’s London office and thrives on getting to know her clients individually. Using her psychological expertise, Frankie is passionate about finding out a client’s hopes and aspirations and what characteristics they’re seeking in a spouse, then finding them their ultimate life partner.
