Use reputable platforms. If dating independently, choose services with robust safety features, such as verified profiles and built-in security.
Maclynn Dating Safety Guide
Preparing to meet someone new
Before meeting someone new, it’s important to take a few precautions to ensure your safety and peace of mind. Share your plans with someone you trust—this could be your matchmaker, a friend, or a family member—letting them know where you’re going, who you’re meeting, and your expected time frames. Consider sharing your live location with a trusted contact while on the date so they can stay informed about your movements. Opt for a well-lit, public venue for your first meeting and avoid secluded or private locations. Establish and respect your boundaries, being prepared to communicate them clearly if needed, and have an exit strategy in place to ensure your comfort. Above all, trust your instincts—if something feels off during conversations or while planning the date, inform your matchmaker and reevaluate the meeting.
Safety Tips When Meeting Matches Through Maclynn
At Maclynn, we take your safety seriously. Every match you meet through our service has been met by one of our matchmakers and has undergone an ID verification, including confirmation of their full name and birth date.
While we strive to screen individuals with the utmost diligence, it’s important to acknowledge that we cannot guarantee perfect behavior during every interaction or date. We encourage you to remain mindful and prioritise your comfort and safety at all times.
General Safety Tips
Do Your Research
Stay Vigilant
Be cautious of financial requests. Avoid engaging with anyone who asks for money, even if their reasoning seems plausible.
Avoid Sharing Personal Information
Protect your privacy. Withhold sensitive details, such as your full name, address, workplace, or financial information, until trust is established.
Meet in Public
When meeting someone for the first time, always choose a public, well-populated location and inform a friend or family member of your plans.
During the date
During the date, prioritise your safety and comfort by taking a few mindful steps. Arrive independently, using your own transportation to and from the meeting location to ensure control over your departure, and avoid sharing your exact home address on the first date. Be mindful of your alcohol intake, and stay aware of your surroundings, refraining from sharing overly personal information too quickly. If anything makes you uncomfortable, politely but firmly say no, and don’t hesitate to assert your boundaries. Have a backup plan in place, such as arranging for a friend to call or text you during the date to check in and provide support if needed.
After the date
Update a friend or family member that you are home safe from the date.
Reflect and consider how the date made you feel. Trust your instincts if something felt wrong or off and share your concerns with your matchmaker or a trusted friend.
Take time to decide. Assess whether you’d like to see the person again based on your feelings and experience.
If working with a matchmaker share your feedback and discuss together the best way to proceed.
In extreme situations, if you feel unsafe or uncomfortable, block the person on all platforms and cease communication.
Pressure to meet in private or isolated locations
Requests for money or financial assistance
Inconsistent stories or false information
Aggressive, manipulative or controlling behaviours
Maclynn’s Commitment
We take safety seriously, conducting rigorous client vetting to verify identity and ensure alignment with our values. Matches are thoughtfully curated based on compatibility, shared goals, and values.
While we take every precaution, we encourage you to exercise your judgment and report any concerns. In extreme cases, we will investigate, address the issue, and, if necessary, terminate the individual’s participation in our services.
Our commitment is to provide a secure and empowering environment for you to connect with others while prioritising your well-being and personal agency.
