1. Myth: Online dating is only for people who can’t find a date in real life.
Reality: Online dating is a popular way to meet people, and many successful relationships have started through online dating platforms; you just need to have the right strategy and optimised profile.
2. Myth: People lie on their online dating profiles.
Reality: While some people may exaggerate (kitten fish!) or misrepresent themselves on their profiles, many individuals are honest and genuine in their profiles. Look out for ones that have clearly had too much effort put into them.
3. Myth: Online dating is dangerous.
Reality: While there are risks associated with meeting people online, online dating platforms typically have safety measures in place, and taking basic precautions as you normally would when getting to know new people, such as meeting in public places, can reduce the risk of danger.
4. Myth: Online dating is only for young people.
Reality: People of all ages use online dating platforms, and there are dating sites and apps specifically designed for different age groups. There are many niche apps also for those who have specific tastes; Bristlr for those who fancy men with beards or Uniform Dating for those who are into uniforms.
5. Myth: Online dating is only for hookups.
Reality: While some individuals may use online dating platforms for casual hookups, many people are looking for serious relationships and use online dating as a means to find compatible partners. A survey we took with over 500 people showed that the vast majority were looking for a serious relationship.
6. Myth: Online dating is expensive.
Reality: Many online dating platforms offer free or low-cost options, and some even have free trials or introductory periods.
7. Myth: Online dating is only for heterosexual individuals.
Reality: There are dating sites and apps for people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Search for your particular category and it’s sure to come up.
8. Myth: Online dating is time-consuming.
Reality: While online dating can require some time and effort, it can be a convenient way to meet potential partners without the need for extensive socialising or going out to bars or clubs. Having a plan and strategy can be a real time saver.
9. Myth: Online dating is impersonal.
Reality: Online dating platforms offer a variety of ways to connect with potential partners, including messaging, video calls, and in-person meetings, which can make the experience more personal and intimate.
10. Myth: Online dating is not as successful as meeting someone in real life.
Reality: Online dating has led to many successful relationships and marriages, and some research even suggests that couples who meet online are more likely to have long-term, satisfying relationships than those who meet in traditional ways. Eharmony predicts that online dating will overtake ‘offline’ dating in the near future.
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